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09-29-2006, 02:55 PM
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Speechless
Join Date: Sep 2006
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I did it
Well people I got the balls and the guts to do it. I actually asked a girl out. She did say no cuz she has a boyfriend but hey thats ok at least I tried right? She seemed friendly enough from what i got from her in class and everything so I liked her and all that and so first to start it off, i asked if she wanted to study soemtime with me for our upcoming biology test and she said sure, and then after that i said wait i have one more question before you go. This is the good part hehe. I had the question at the tip of my tongue ready to fire it away, but this is where my nerves and shyness kicked in. I said well actually i forgot what i was going to say and kinda stood there for a minute. And i said to myself, wait a second man you ahve come this far dont blow it know you got nothing to lose and much to gain. So i gathered myself together beat the nerves and shyness back and asked her. And yeah like I said earlier she did say no cuz she had a boyfriend but that we can still study for that test. So all in all I feel really good about it and i feel that it was a HUGE success to me and could be a big boost to my confidence level, a MUCH needed one at that.
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09-29-2006, 07:57 PM
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Junior Chatterbox
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Sunny England
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Originally Posted by alabamaguy
Well people I got the balls and the guts to do it. I actually asked a girl out. She did say no cuz she has a boyfriend but hey thats ok at least I tried right? She seemed friendly enough from what i got from her in class and everything so I liked her and all that and so first to start it off, i asked if she wanted to study soemtime with me for our upcoming biology test and she said sure, and then after that i said wait i have one more question before you go. This is the good part hehe. I had the question at the tip of my tongue ready to fire it away, but this is where my nerves and shyness kicked in. I said well actually i forgot what i was going to say and kinda stood there for a minute. And i said to myself, wait a second man you ahve come this far dont blow it know you got nothing to lose and much to gain. So i gathered myself together beat the nerves and shyness back and asked her. And yeah like I said earlier she did say no cuz she had a boyfriend but that we can still study for that test. So all in all I feel really good about it and i feel that it was a HUGE success to me and could be a big boost to my confidence level, a MUCH needed one at that.
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Well done. But did you not read my other post in you're other thread its always bad news to do that with girls in the same class as you. You're not in a kiddy school anymore and if things fúck up they will really fúck up bad.
Just so long as its not awkward with you two now if you're friends then that’s good coz u got more confidence out of it.
But really trust me falling for girls you work with is never good in the long run.
Last edited by DR Evil; 09-29-2006 at 08:01 PM.
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09-29-2006, 10:49 PM
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I talk too much!
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Florida, USA
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Originally Posted by alabamaguy
Well people I got the balls and the guts to do it. I actually asked a girl out. She did say no cuz she has a boyfriend but hey thats ok at least I tried right? She seemed friendly enough from what i got from her in class and everything so I liked her and all that and so first to start it off, i asked if she wanted to study soemtime with me for our upcoming biology test and she said sure, and then after that i said wait i have one more question before you go. This is the good part hehe. I had the question at the tip of my tongue ready to fire it away, but this is where my nerves and shyness kicked in. I said well actually i forgot what i was going to say and kinda stood there for a minute. And i said to myself, wait a second man you ahve come this far dont blow it know you got nothing to lose and much to gain. So i gathered myself together beat the nerves and shyness back and asked her. And yeah like I said earlier she did say no cuz she had a boyfriend but that we can still study for that test. So all in all I feel really good about it and i feel that it was a HUGE success to me and could be a big boost to my confidence level, a MUCH needed one at that.
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Well uh...congrats on getting the balls to ask a girl out.  Well I'm glad this situation gave you a nice self-esteem boost. As excited as you seem in this post, I have no doubt you went home after you asked her out, and pranced around in circles like you just won the lottery, with your head stuck high up in the air, repeating to yourself "i finally grew some balls" Well..good luck with your study lessons.
However I have a new study lesson for you. You and your new friend can study this together as well. Please view this link
http://www.chat-avenue.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=12776
scroll down to where it says "Post in the appropriate forum" and study.
-Moved to Dating and Relationships-
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09-30-2006, 08:06 AM
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Platinum Member
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: England.
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Originally Posted by alabamaguy
Well people I got the balls and the guts to do it. I actually asked a girl out. She did say no cuz she has a boyfriend but hey thats ok at least I tried right? She seemed friendly enough from what i got from her in class and everything so I liked her and all that and so first to start it off, i asked if she wanted to study soemtime with me for our upcoming biology test and she said sure, and then after that i said wait i have one more question before you go. This is the good part hehe. I had the question at the tip of my tongue ready to fire it away, but this is where my nerves and shyness kicked in. I said well actually i forgot what i was going to say and kinda stood there for a minute. And i said to myself, wait a second man you ahve come this far dont blow it know you got nothing to lose and much to gain. So i gathered myself together beat the nerves and shyness back and asked her. And yeah like I said earlier she did say no cuz she had a boyfriend but that we can still study for that test. So all in all I feel really good about it and i feel that it was a HUGE success to me and could be a big boost to my confidence level, a MUCH needed one at that.
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Congrats. See, it's not that difficult.
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09-30-2006, 11:03 AM
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Fongraturations.
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09-30-2006, 02:22 PM
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John O' Scots.
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: City Of Wonder.
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I didn't have the balls to phone someone cuz the left one hurt.
I do now.
Sorry, random ''balls'' topic. ._.;
And congrats, I'd say ''it's not that hard'' but I've not experienced it.
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