How do I know?

[prettypaganjae]

How do I know if I'm bisexual? I guess I would be called bi-curious. I've been attracted to girls before, but I've never been brave enough to act on it. To be quite honest, I don't know if I would. I've kissed a girl before, and it was great, but I don't know if I'd go beyond that. I've thought about it. Hell, I've had dreams about it. I've had girls hit on me before, and I was flattered, but I turned them down (mainly because I'm a big chicken). There was this one girl when I was 17 (nearly 6 years ago) that wanted to be my first, and I nearly gave in to her. I don't know why I turned her down, we were friends and she was smokin' hot. I guess it all comes down to being to scared to act on what I feel. So, yeah, I'm a little frustrated and a lot confused. Any help is seriously appreciated.

Jae

[Luka]

Originally Posted by prettypaganjae

How do I know if I'm bisexual? I guess I would be called bi-curious. I've been attracted to girls before, but I've never been brave enough to act on it. To be quite honest, I don't know if I would. I've kissed a girl before, and it was great, but I don't know if I'd go beyond that. I've thought about it. Hell, I've had dreams about it. I've had girls hit on me before, and I was flattered, but I turned them down (mainly because I'm a big chicken). There was this one girl when I was 17 (nearly 6 years ago) that wanted to be my first, and I nearly gave in to her. I don't know why I turned her down, we were friends and she was smokin' hot. I guess it all comes down to being to scared to act on what I feel. So, yeah, I'm a little frustrated and a lot confused. Any help is seriously appreciated.

I think you're a lesbian to be honest because you never mentioned anything about your feelings towards men.
It's only natural to be scared on your first time, especially if it's someone of the same sex, so don't worry about being ''chicken''.
Take things slow with this girl. Maybe even ask her out on a date or something and get to know each other again, and take things slowly. You don't have to rush into sex right away. Take time and get passed first and second base, and see how both your feelings are and see what happens when nature takes its toll.
Good luck.