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Originally Posted by KLSClarinet
I need some advice for the more experienced PLEASE!!!
Is it normal for a girl to feel just as ***** as a guy?
I mean i know guys are supposed to be more active and all, but are there more of you who feel more like i do or am i the only one? 
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It would be abnormal if you didn't. A healthy appetite is very normal. But everybody is different. Many times religious training reinforces that a woman enjoying it is bad and sinful. I think this is very bad for the happiness and fulfilment that can be experienced in later life if you can't overcome this negative brainwashing.
G-d gave us sexuality and biologically speaking it serves a function but the intellectual part of it, i.e, enjoying it is one of life's free pleasures. The key is to be comfortable in your sexuality not shameful. If a partner is turned off by your needs and enthusiasm, it's probably a very sexually immature person who isn't a good match. Since many people have that anti *** religious training, their own guilt and shame manifest in ways such as making you feel dirty or ****y. It's their issue not yours, move on.
Within the confines of an adult sexual relationship between two consenting parties, it can be a very wonderful part of life. If a partner isn't mature enough to handle your enjoyment, life is too short, pass them by.