anal advise

emy-h · 12-26-2006, 09:43 AM

I am 16 and love to have *** with my boyfriend. We like it and try everything. Now we want to do it through the backdoor. Has somebody have experience? Can somebody give advice on doing it? Added: From girls please

**Chicksta** · 12-26-2006, 09:48 AM

At 16? Wow.

Uhmm I haven't ever done it, and I wouldn't. All I can say is make sure you use plenty of lube and make sure your bf takes his time while doing it, don't just rush into it, otherwise you'll end up being in alot of darn pain.

Luka · 12-26-2006, 09:49 AM

Use a lot of lubrication such as KY Jelly.
And take it slow as well.
Remember the linings around the anus are tender and easily split/damaged and can cause pain and bleeding.
Oh, and make sure your boyfriend wears a condom.

And be prepared not to be able to sit down for the following week.

MooGooGaiPan · 12-26-2006, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by emy-h

I am 16 and like to have *** with my boyfriend. We like it and try everything. Now we want to do it through the backdoor. Has somebody have experience? Can somebody give advice on doing it?

You do not HAVE to do anything

If YOU like having s3x, then you should continue to do so with your boyfriend or whoever you want

I do have a lot of experience "through the back door"

In my opinion, it feels like heaven

Mizz Danni · 12-26-2006, 10:45 AM

16?
Lube, condoms, oh and the time and money to support a child if it all goes wrong.
:|

Luka · 12-26-2006, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Mizz Danni

16?
Lube, condoms, oh and the time and money to support a child if it all goes wrong.
:|

Can't get pregnant through anal sex.

Mizz Danni · 12-26-2006, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Luka

Can't get pregnant through anal sex.

No, i'm aware of that -
I obviously worded that wrong
but since that's NOT the only kind of s.ex they're having
that will become an issue, no doubt.

That came out so so wrong :|

ladalang · 12-26-2006, 12:40 PM

First off you are way too young to be having ***. Second if you are already considering anal at age sixteen, are you planning to make this a career? Since I'm in my forties I can assure you, you are not mature enough to be having a sexual relationship. Sure your body may be mature but your life experience and emotional maturity is such that you can't possibly be able to understand what is happening to you. Where I live you having *** at 16 is a crime. And it's a crime for a reason. Where is your mom? Your youth and innocence are gone. I think you should stop the sexual relationship and seek help immediately. My guess is you were probably molested in which case counseling is in order. Good luck!

emy-h · 12-26-2006, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by ladalang

First off you are way too young to be having ***. Second if you are already considering anal at age sixteen, are you planning to make this a career? Since I'm in my forties I can assure you, you are not mature enough to be having a sexual relationship. Sure your body may be mature but your life experience and emotional maturity is such that you can't possibly be able to understand what is happening to you. Where I live you having *** at 16 is a crime. And it's a crime for a reason. Where is your mom? Your youth and innocence are gone. I think you should stop the sexual relationship and seek help immediately. My guess is you were probably molested in which case counseling is in order. Good luck!

Thank`s Mother Theresa. There are always people who try to tell others what to do, what is good and what not. I rather would comment on killing people or getting killed in wars or in the name of religion as it happens right now. Having and enjoying xxx is something our bodies are made for, killing is not. Hallejujah.

ladalang · 12-26-2006, 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted by emy-h

Thank`s Mother Theresa. There are always people who try to tell others what to do, what is good and what not. I rather would comment on killing people or getting killed in wars or in the name of religion as it happens right now. Having and enjoying xxx is something our bodies are made for, killing is not. Hallejujah.

Where did you get killing out of all that? *** for consenting adults yes, but you are a child, you are still a teenager. I'm not a religous person, my comments were based on logic. You are too young. It doesn't take a religous person, just an intelligent person to see that.

The war and killing have nothing to do with you having *** and this whole connection you just created shows just how ignorant and immature you are. I'm giving you advice your mother should have. I'm not telling you what to do, I'm suggesting what path you take before you are a parent at sixteen or worse.

Your post, actually made me sick. What you presented here is not normal and healthy but really, really scary.