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View Poll Results: is it ok for a gay person to use the words f@g, fagyt?
It's ok for gay people only to use the term. 7 15.22%
It's not ok for anyone to use the word f@gyt. 14 30.43%
It's only ok when either straight,gay,bi people are using the term jokingly. 20 43.48%
It is never ok for anyone to use the words joking or when they are mad 14 30.43%
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Old 03-06-2007, 12:23 AM   #1
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So I'm just wondering. If it is offensive when straight people call gay people fagottt or fags but, is it not offensive when another gay person uses those same terms?

My opinion it is still bad because the person who is gay should be supporting the gay people as in also saying it's not right to gay bash. Not to join in and say it's all good.
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Old 03-06-2007, 12:26 AM   #2
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Probably the same as when a black person calls another black person a [self-censored word], but I would have no idea.

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Probably the same as when a black person calls another black person a [self-censored word], but I would have no idea.

Cherryz, you're a cracker.
Hehe I know honkey. j/k.
That's what I thought in comparision too but, just wanted to see.

Anyways first poll ever by me.
I also wanted to see how to make a poll.
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Old 03-06-2007, 12:50 AM   #4
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This reminds me how if a white person says ***** to a black person they get their ass kicked, but it's okay for black people to say it to one another.

I don't really know for either one to be honest..
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Old 03-06-2007, 12:54 AM   #5
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That word does not bother me at all..
I don't call anyone that, there are nicer words to call someone...
Great Subject to try a poll....
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my take on it is on one hand it's ok for a gay person to do it because, they are gay themself but, on the other hand I think the gay person using the word fag or fagyt is telling the straight people it's ok to bash gay people....

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my take on it is on one hand it's ok for a gay person to do it because, they are gay themself but, on the other hand I think the gay person using the wrod fag or fagyt is telling the straight people it's ok to bash gay people....
Like I said.. It does not bother me, I would not call another gay person anything but their , name and if i was in a Fight with a gay person, the worst I call them is B!tch....
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Like I said.. It does not bother me, I would not call another gay person anything but their , name and if i was in a Fight with a gay person, the worst I call them is B!tch....
Hehe...Yeah bitch works. Depends on who's using it. Some people call me it and it's like big deal but, if my b/f used it when he was mad. That would be a different story.
I also think that it's ok for anyone to use the words joking.(Outside of using it in C-A of course)

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Hi Diana, Hi Robbie.

I chose the 3rd option.
Faggot is so derogatory, and some people, even straight people hate the word ((or so I know.))

I agree with Lextacy.
I think some gay people know when another gay person calls them a fag, they're joking. But it's dofferent if a straight person calls a gay person a fag. o_o

Robbie called me a hunky faggot.
So has Rick.
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Luka....
That was in a Pic i sent you lol....
Now , I dont think that word should be just thrown around...
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