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Old 03-22-2007, 01:32 AM   #1
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Trust me its not a good thing when your not married.

I come from a school where literally 33% of the girls are pregnant and most of the 33% dont have husband or boyfriend to support the baby. Lets say the graduation rate was really low. I hate finding out that an old senior friend just got pregnant or got someone pregnant in their first year of college. There is not telling about the STDs they might have.

True story. A girl from my middle school class three years ago, was a smart girl. She made straight As. She beats the boys at woodshop class and always make the highest score in pre-algebra. At the end of our 8th grade year, there were rumors spreading that she just had *** with a guy name cruz in the boy bathroom. I never believed this because she was so smart and seemed like the type who would be careful about this ***. I know how ***** boys are at my school and how they exaggerate. I applied for a high school next year and got through. I walked into my biology class to find this women with a large belly. I recgonize her and she was the same girl. I thought, "what have you been eating?". On top of her desk were file folders. Inside the file folders were pictures of a sonagrame ( I think they call them that) of a baby. The rumor was true. I cant believe it. Long story short , next high school year I never saw her.


Guys and Girls. I have seen a lot of joking and admitting that you had *** on this forum (particularly oral ***). By the look of some people profile, most are under 18.

I know how pleasurable and desirable *** can be but there is only way to resolve these matters without getting HIV, pregnant, or getting someone else pregant.

* Not a condom but






Here is some interesting sites with some interesting stats.
http://www.teenpregnancy.org/
http://www.cdc.gov/std/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexuall...mitted_disease


Dont let the media fool you like it did me and over 80 million American youth.

How to resist urges
* Try something fun and safe like hobbies which can include video games that does not involve any sexual themes or reading. Hobbies My personal favorite hobby is to cook and tutor others in Calculus courses.


I know when I preach stuff like this, I get stares similar to this but it has to be a moral virtue in everyone's life. Pre-martial *** can ruin one life in a split of a second.

CHOOSE
ABSTINENCE
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Old 03-22-2007, 08:48 AM   #2
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Interesting links. However no girl gets pregnant without some guy, so why the onus is always on the female I have no idea.

As for majority of the talk in these forums by the younger users about s.ex, let's just say that's all it is. If their sexual exploits were as good as what they say they wouldn't be in here bragging about them. They'd be in real time experiencing them over and over again.
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Interesting links. However no girl gets pregnant without some guy, so why the onus is always on the female I have no idea.
I agree. Maybe they ultimately blame the girl because Girls are supposedly more wise and maturer than boys?
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Old 03-22-2007, 03:35 PM   #6
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Trust me its not a good thing when your not married.

I come from a school where literally 33% of the girls are pregnant and most of the 33% dont have husband or boyfriend to support the baby. Lets say the graduation rate was really low. I hate finding out that an old senior friend just got pregnant or got someone pregnant in their first year of college. There is not telling about the STDs they might have.

True story. A girl from my middle school class three years ago, was a smart girl. She made straight As. She beats the boys at woodshop class and always make the highest score in pre-algebra. At the end of our 8th grade year, there were rumors spreading that she just had *** with a guy name cruz in the boy bathroom. I never believed this because she was so smart and seemed like the type who would be careful about this ***. I know how ***** boys are at my school and how they exaggerate. I applied for a high school next year and got through. I walked into my biology class to find this women with a large belly. I recgonize her and she was the same girl. I thought, "what have you been eating?". On top of her desk were file folders. Inside the file folders were pictures of a sonagrame ( I think they call them that) of a baby. The rumor was true. I cant believe it. Long story short , next high school year I never saw her.


Guys and Girls. I have seen a lot of joking and admitting that you had *** on this forum (particularly oral ***). By the look of some people profile, most are under 18.

I know how pleasurable and desirable *** can be but there is only way to resolve these matters without getting HIV, pregnant, or getting someone else pregant.

* Not a condom but






Here is some interesting sites with some interesting stats.
http://www.teenpregnancy.org/
http://www.cdc.gov/std/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexuall...mitted_disease


Dont let the media fool you like it did me and over 80 million American youth.

How to resist urges
* Try something fun and safe like hobbies which can include video games that does not involve any sexual themes or reading. Hobbies My personal favorite hobby is to cook and tutor others in Calculus courses.


I know when I preach stuff like this, I get stares similar to this but it has to be a moral virtue in everyone's life. Pre-martial *** can ruin one life in a split of a second.

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ABSTINENCE


Like cat says, most of the people who "brag" on the forums are all talk, but then even if what they say is true then who are you to dictate when people have sex? Sex before marriage, is, to me, an outdated idea. Fair enough if people want to do that, but people who DON'T shouldn't be berated. Also, not everyone who has sex ends up pregnant or with an std, there are so many methods of precaution out there that ignorance really is no excuse, and hey, if you're old enough to be having sex, then you should be old enough to accept the concequences of raising a child or picking up a vd.
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Old 03-22-2007, 06:10 PM   #7
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I guess trying to protect others from STDs, getting pregant, or somebody getting preganat is a vice now a days.
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Old 03-22-2007, 06:12 PM   #8
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That's pretty sad, but good for you for staying absteint!
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I guess trying to protect others from STDs, getting pregant, or somebody getting preganat is a vice now a days.
Well there's a line of ignorance right there no-one is saying don't try to protect people from them. What the majority of people (including myself) are saying, seeing as you clearly haven't picked up on it, is that there are ways of protecting yourself from pregnancy and STDs WITHOUT abstaining from sex. Nobody is advising young girls and boys to run out and get laid, but the simple fact is if they're going to then they WILL; and no amount of preaching about avoiding sex will change that. The best thing we can do, is voice the methods of contraception out there so that people who choose to have sex do so safely.
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I love how you harp on spelling, but you misspelled pregnant twice in the same post, 2 different way.


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